Blowjob Tricks That Will Blow Your Mind

You’re on your knees, face to face with his penis and it’s your time to shine sis. You talked all this shit in his DMs about how you were going to put the smack down and now you’re ready to choke up, literally. Welp, guess what our ultimate blowjob guide is here to give you the real tea sweetie. The only coach you have had for giving a good blowjob was from Pornhub and XXX.  Let’s be real those pornstars can make you feel like you’ll never be up to par. Well let me tell you that you can do what they do, but much BETTER. You can learn the art of deep throating, and anything that you take the time out to educate yourself on and practice. 

If there is one thing most women (and some men) want to be good at, it’s giving a proper blowjob. This is the perfect guide to blowjobs for beginners and advanced participants. Two of the major keys to giving an amazing blowjob is passion, and the desire to please your partner. Do not look at oral sex as a “chore”. Doing that will take all of the fun out of it, and subconsciously you will give minimal effort. Instead, look at giving a blowjob as an art, or a form of power and being in control. You should be making love to his dick with your lips and doing what it takes to have him feeling good. Passion should be oozing off your tongue. While giving a blowjob, you have that man by the balls, literally. You should be on a mission to suck his soul out and leave him questioning where you’ve been all his life.

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Figuring out exactly what YOUR partner likes is half the battle, and you can find out by simply asking. Get on your knees and say “tell me exactly how you want it, baby”. Men love feeling like they’re in control, so they’ll enjoy giving you instructions while watching you listen and apply what they’re saying. With the understanding that every man is different, the tips I am going to give you may not ALWAYS apply. There are some men in the world who actually LIKE when women bite their penis (crazy I know), so again don’t be afraid to ask! You can also catch on to what your partner likes by simply paying attention. When he bites his lip, clenches his abs, or moans “fffuuuckkk” that usually means he’s enjoying himself and to keep going. There are guys who don’t make much noise so do not feel bad if he’s quiet ladies. Now if you apply all the tips I’m going to give you, he should be speaking in tongues by the time you’re done with him.

Some men like it so sloppy saliva is running down their legs and ass crack, and others just like a nice glistening layer of spit. One thing is for certain, no one likes dry head. Before I even begin I like to gather a nice amount of saliva in my mouth and spit right on his penis. This helps you keep it from being dry, and will likely turn your man on like crazy. If you have cotton mouth, it’s in your best interest to drink some water before you start your mission. I understand sometimes your mouth can get dry while in the act and getting up to get water might mess up the moment. An easy way to produce more saliva while in the act, is to go down far enough so that your gag reflex goes into action. Gagging will fill your mouth up with all the spit you’ll need. I’ve also witnessed plenty of men say hearing a woman gag is like music to their ears. “To know she’s choosing my penis over the air is so sexy” is the line I’ve been told time and time again.

Keep Your Eyes On The Prize (Him)

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Eye contact is VERY important ladies and gents. Your eyes can say a lot without your mouth saying a word, and considering your mouth will be preoccupied your eyes should do all the talking. Staring someone in the eyes for a certain period of time is said to deepen your intimate connection. Making eye contact also shows how confident and sure of yourself you are while down there, basically demanding attention. Your man will love every second of it.

Now It’s Your Time To Shine

Now we’re going to talk about something that does not get enough attention, and that’s the balls. Do not neglect the balls, they need some warm wet loving too. There are multiple ways to keep the balls entertained while still focusing on the penis. One way is to rub the balls in your hands as if you’re holding Chinese meditation balls while sucking the shaft. I also recommend you make sure there is saliva on the balls too so that your hands can smoothly and gently caress them. Another way is to suck the balls while stroking the penis with your hands. When you’re sucking the balls, be sure not to suck too hard considering they are very sensitive but don’t suck to lightly to where they feel nothing at all. Your tongue can be used to flick back and forth to massage the balls while simultaneously sucking them. If you’re advanced at fellatio and have perfected deepthroating you can also suck the shaft and lick the balls at the same time. From experience, I have learned that is a guaranteed soul snatcher, but let’s leave that to the pros.

I’m sure we’ve all seen the girl on the porno getting her throat pounded out and wonder HOW SWAY ?! Deepthroating is an art and takes practice, focus, and determination. I won’t go too deep into how to deepthroat because I am going to dedicate an entire post to it but I will share with you guys some of the basics.

  1. Learning to breathe through your nose will help you stop from gagging.
  2. RELAX YOUR THROAT, tensing up will make it ten times harder for you.
  3. Don’t rush and just shove the entire penis down your throat. Practice going down further and further each time. Just like anything else, your throat has to be trained for that type of penetration.
  4. Patience and Persistence, don’t give up just because you gag a little. Relax, recuperate and try again.
  5. Don’t be afraid to give him a hand job and use sex toys to heighten the experience.

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Men love knowing that you are getting pleasure out of pleasing them. Moaning while you’re putting in all that work will let them know just how much you’re loving it. Not only will it turn them on, it will likely turn you on too. Hearing yourself moan, while staring at him and watching him enjoying the hell out of your throat is definitely something that should get your panties wet. Another one of my favorite tricks is to swirl my tongue around the head. Alternating between sucking the head and the entire shaft is also a mind-blowing combo. Being creative and coming up with new tricks that he has never experienced is a for sure way to keep him coming back. Being repetitive with the same up and down motion gets boring after awhile. Speed it up, slow it down, suck the sides, suck the balls, and then deepthroating the entire thing.

Whatever pattern you decide to use just make sure you’re doing it with enthusiasm and purpose. With that being said, your purpose is to make him cum like never before, and what better way to do that than to finish it off by swallowing. Now I understand swallowing is not for everyone, and that’s fair!  Regardless of how you allow him to finish, please do it with sex appeal. If you’re handling him cumming immaturely than you probably shouldn’t be doing it in the first place. Put your big girl panties on and embrace the explosion that you created! Always remember that this should be enjoyable for YOU as well. If you’re uncomfortable or don’t feel like you are enjoying giving head then you should stop or not do it at all! A wise woman once told me “whatever you do in life, you should strive to be the best at it”, keyword WHATEVER! Now take this blow job guide and florish sis! If you’re in need of some extra tips to go the extra mile these blow job tricks may be just what you need to get down and dirty. 

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